(drawing by HonieMun!)
my name is cabbage. as of this writing, i am 21, non-binary (they/it) and asexual. despite the latter, i have always been fascinated by kink stuff, especially esoteric fetishes, and am into a lot of weird stuff myself. the ace label simply comes from the fact that i really do not find myself aroused by sex or genitals, and sex is only fun when a] i am with extremely close people (especially my girlfriend) and b] said people are aroused by me, since its almost physically impossible for me to be aroused from having sex myself (all of this makes me technically demi but it is still very convoluted so i just use demi and ace interchangeably)
for Trauma (tm) and Anxiety (tm) reasons (you dont need to know more) ive always been afraid of showing my kinkier side to the world, so i mostly kept it to myself and like 2 people. that is, until i created this pseudonym in order to interact with fetish artists and communities. and honestly? its the best decision i've ever taken in my life. i haven't felt more liberated before!!!!! its given me newfound confidence to meet new people to talk with about how bad i want a fat woman to asphyxiate me, or be a plush, or... you get it. its awesome!! unfortunately this means i need to maintain some level of anonimity. this means you won't get pictures or more personal details about me. you won't even get my first language, which isn't english, for the record! maybe one day this will change, but such are the sacrifices i have to make in order to maintain my own comfort.
i also make art, both kink and sfw, but unfortunately i can't put that here either. i love doing art trades though! so if im comfy with you i might ask you for one. but don't just ask me to show my art, you will have to earn that privilege. i do have a sona that i like making people draw though, you can see it in this website!
beyond kink and art, i also like to play games, cook and watch anime in my free time